The Reality of Being a Cam Girl: Fans, Boundaries, Stalkers & Making Money | Cam Girl Diaries Podcast #97

Gary: What’s the weirdest thing a guy asked you to do?

Stalara: Somebody told me to go in the toilet. He wanted to watch me in the toilet.

Gary: Yes, they want me to take a toilet.

Welcome to Cam Girl Diaries Podcast. I’m your host, Gary. Today, we have a returning guest, Stalara, who is a 23-year-old petite mixed cat girl.

Now, do you identify as a cat? Is that what that’s about?

Stalara: Yeah, yeah. I’m pretty much like a cat, you know? Got all those features.

Gary: Nice. So you’re just a glorified pussy, then?

Stalara: Pretty much.

Gary: So, let me get this straight. You identify as a cat?

Stalara: I don’t technically identify like… that’s not my main thing. But if I’m sexual, I will act like one, if that makes sense.

Gary: Oh, okay. That type of thing. Now, is that just in your personal life, or do you do that for your gooners?

Stalara: Just the gooners.

Gary: Oh, whoa. So apparently, technically, that makes you an actress.

Stalara: Maybe, yeah.

Gary: Right? I mean, because if you don’t do it in your personal life, everything I do in my personal life, you know, that’s me. But if I’m doing it for, say, if I was a pretend character called Pervert Pete and I’m showing you my wiener, you know, that’s pretend.

Yeah, open that mouth so I can stick my wiener in there.

Stalara: Oh, yeah.

Gary: Oh, no. Come on. You don’t want to put Pervert Pete’s fucking meat in your mouth? Get out of here.

Stalara: I don’t believe that.

Gary: Yeah, I do it. I have a lot of cosplay and stuff like that, too.

Do you like to cosplay? Like, again, in your personal life and for your fans?

Stalara: Just for my fans, to be honest.

Gary: Oh, interesting. But do you like doing it, or are you just doing it for them?

Stalara: I do. Yeah.

Gary: Oh, that’s good.

Wait a minute. I just remembered in our first interview. I think you said you’d like to, or I don’t know if you like to do it, but you shock your titties. Is that true?

Stalara: I do.

Gary: Yes. You shock your titties with a battery, like a car battery?

Stalara: No. There’s this thing called a TENS Zapper. You can literally look it up. It’ll be just like this long stick that says TENS Zapper on it. Basically, you can actually order one on Amazon, too.

Gary: Oh, can we see you zapping your titties on Instagram, which is on the screen? No, right?

Stalara: You can’t do that on Instagram.

Gary: Can you?

Stalara: No, no.

Gary: Oh. Fucking Instagram. But can we go to your Instagram and find your… I’m sure you have a Linktree or something, right? Where we can see all your naughty shit?

Stalara: Yeah. You can find my naughty shit there.

Gary: Yeah, yeah. All right. That’s what I’m talking about.

Because that’s what everyone wants to see, is your naughty shit, right? I mean, I’m sure you have a great personality and you show it on Instagram because that’s all you can show on Instagram, right? I mean, what else are you going to show on Instagram?

Everything.

You can show your titties on Instagram?

Stalara: No.

Gary: I could actually, which is fucked up, right? Like, I could show my titties on Instagram, but you can’t. Right?

Isn’t that bullshit? Nobody wants to see my titties. Everyone wants to see your titties, not mine.

I don’t even want to see my titties. I look in the mirror and I want to fucking blow my fucking brains out. I’m like, “What the fuck?”

So sad.

But enough about that. So what’s your main platform?

Stalara: I haven’t really been doing sex work as much lately, but I would probably say either Telegram or Snapchat.

Gary: Wait a minute. What happened?

I forget time-wise how long it’s been. It’s been probably about a year since we did your first episode, right?

Stalara: Yeah.

Gary: So what’s changed?

Stalara: I’ve taken a step back. I have to have another job and stuff like that. You know, gotta get the house going and stuff like that.

Gary: So what you’re saying is it’s a lot of work to be a sex worker?

Stalara: Pretty much, yeah.

Gary: Yeah. So from the last time we talked to you, which was a year ago… Back then, I’m trying to remember. I should have fucking researched. Usually I do research, but I fucked up. I should have watched our last episode.

But back then you were pretty active, I thought, right?

Stalara: I was pretty active, yeah. I still want to be pretty active.

Gary: And it just became too much?

Stalara: I just have a lot going on in life. Like, I have to pay rent for this apartment I have.

Gary: Oh, tell me about it. The economy is fucked. Oh, goddamn it.

Stalara: I know.

Gary: I fucking wake up at fucking three o’clock in the morning and shit and go to my fucking job. And then, you know, I talk to cam girls and shit.

It’s almost like an 18-hour day for me, which burns you out and shit. I’m sure, especially being a sex worker, that gets you burned out.

There’s only so much you can stick in your fucking taco, right?

Stalara: Exactly.

Gary: What can we see on your OnlyFans?

Stalara: Which one? The free or the paid?

Gary: Oh, shit. I don’t know.

Stalara: Yeah, free.

Gary: Hey, wait a minute. I am subscribed to your free page. Let me check it real quick.

Wait, I shouldn’t do that. That’s disrespectful.

Stalara: I don’t care what the fuck happens.

Gary: Do you show your taco on there? Because that’d be awkward. I’m looking at your taco and talking to you and shit.

Stalara: I do.

Gary: Oh, shit. All right. Oh, I don’t know. That seems weird.

But if you show your taco on your free, are you sticking things in your taco on your paid?

Stalara: Yeah, obviously.

Gary: I don’t know how it works. I’ll do anything type thing. What’s that fucking… “Me so horny”?

Stalara: Yeah. “Horny.”

Gary: “Me so horny. Me love you long time.”

Do you consider this a hobby? Like, you know, some people like to collect Pokémon cards. Some people like to fly fucking RC airplanes. Some people collect coins.

You like to stick things in your taco.

Stalara: I would say it’s probably a hobby. More of like making pictures is a hobby. The videos are, you know, spontaneous.

Gary: Oh, okay. So obviously you’re doing it for money. Everybody does it for money. I mean, I’ll show my wiener for fucking money. I don’t give a shit. What the fuck?

But do you do it more for the money, or do you just… you’re into it? Like it’s your thing, your fetish or whatever?

Stalara: A little bit of both, honestly.

Gary: Yeah, yeah. What’s the weirdest thing a guy asked you to do?

Stalara: Somebody told me to poop in the toilet. They wanted to watch me poop in the toilet.

Gary: Yes, they want me to take a shit in the toilet.

So when they asked you this, how detailed did they get? Because as a creator, I’m thinking, all right, if I want someone to poop in a toilet, I want them to get a specific angle. I want to see… Did he get, like, how specific did he get?

Stalara: I didn’t let him have a chance, to be honest.

Gary: Oh, yeah. That’s…

Stalara: I said no to that.

Gary: Oh, God. I’m sorry.

Say I’m paying you $5,000 to take a dump. Can I tell you to do anything, or do you have parameters?

Stalara: Honestly, for $5,000, I would probably take a shit and have somebody watch. I’m not gonna lie.

Gary: Oh, yeah. Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.

So what if, yeah, if I was a poop guy, maybe I would want someone else to record it. Like, you know, what do you call that? Or I could self-record it, too.

Yeah, that’s what I’m trying to think. If I was a poop guy, would I want it self-recorded? Like, you know, first person?

Stalara: Oh, first person, right?

Gary: Like, how dare you? This has gone too far. It’s all your fault. I blame you.

Stalara: Thank you.

Gary: All right. What’s something that someone has asked you to do that you were willing to do that a normal person would consider a little outrageous or something like that?

Give me an example. Has anyone asked you to stick a hot dog in your ass?

Stalara: No.

Gary: Well, I’m asking.

Stalara: No, I don’t have any of that.

Gary: Oh, good. Good. Because that’s just weird. What kind of fucking sick fucking…

You better say no to something like that. Like, a hot dog, really? That’s fucking gross.

Being that you’re so part-time, do you get a lot of nasty stuff, or is it pretty mild?

Stalara: What do you mean by nasty?

Gary: I know, that’s really subjective. Like, in terms of people being disrespectful.

Stalara: Oh, not disrespectful, no. Just more of like, “Hey, can you make me cum,” et cetera, et cetera.

Nothing too bad.

Gary: That’s good. I guess if you’ve gotten a lot… I hear a lot of people that go live constantly, like, they get really fucking nasty shit.

So, being that you’re part-time, like really part-time, do you still have those fans that still hang out?

Stalara: Some of them, yes, but not many.

Gary: Yeah, because they go to the next girl, just like anyone. You know, they go to the next girl.

Let’s role-play a little bit.

Say I’m a new fan, okay? So I’m a gooner. Check your OnlyFans real quick.

Stalara: I can’t pull that up just in case something pops up.

Gary: All right, so I’ll just say what I’m saying. Nice, nice picture of you.

Oh, a shot of your ass. Okay, what the fuck? Your fucking taco is like… why? It’s right there, like, beef and all.

Stalara: Yep.

Gary: Very nice, very nice.

So now I have to DM you, because that’s how it works, right?

Stalara: Yes.

Gary: That’s what a gooner would do, right? Like, he sees your stuff and he DMs you.

Okay, I’m gonna DM you right now.

My name… do they give their name, or how do they… you tell me how they DM you, because I don’t even know.

Stalara: Some of them are just like, “Oh, menu,” or like, “You’re so sexy,” or more, you know?

Gary: Right. I was just talking to someone about this. Like, some people know it’s a transaction, and then others think of it as a relationship type thing.

Stalara: Yeah.

Gary: Dangerous part.

Did you ever have someone that got a little… you know, a little crazy?

Stalara: Yeah. There was this guy that I had. He was a buyer. He was a buyer for like four years. He was my first buyer that I’ve ever had.

And I got into a relationship, and he had my Snapchat. He was just so mean about it. He was one of my admins for Telegram, and he ended up deleting Telegram groups over it, too, because I was posting about my boyfriend and shit like that.

Gary: Oh, so he got jealous?

Stalara: He got jealous and crazy. I had stalkers, too.

Gary: Yeah, I mean, no, that’s bad.

I mean, it’s crazy. See, again, that’s a gender thing, too, because not me… well, I don’t know, me, but the character I played had stalkers, like female stalkers.

But that shit was fucking hot. Like, you know, females are way different than guys. Guys are fucking sick fucks. They’ll kill you over shit.

Female stalkers, they just send you fucking nudes and pussy pics and fucking, you know, all kinds of nice stuff. I mean, they say some weird shit, but it’s so different.

Like, you have to be scared. It did scare you, right?

Stalara: Mm-hmm.

Gary: Did he know any of your personal information or try to get your personal information? Or try to, like, you know, blackmail you or anything?

Stalara: No, thank God.

Gary: Yeah, or I’d be watching you on one of these fucking true-crime YouTube channels.

Just a Laurel and Manx. Used to do OnlyFans until fucking Jerk-Off Jerry fucking found her and, you know, fucking killed her for no reason, because she had a boyfriend. Like, who cares?

Let’s get back into that fucking…

So, all right, I’m going to DM you.

“Hi, I think you have a nice butthole. Can I see you stick a hot dog in it?”

Stalara: Did you actually DM me that?

Gary: Yes.

Stalara: No, you didn’t.

Gary: No, just now. Pretend. Pretend you’re an actress.

Stalara: I will not do anything with my butt. That’s like a no for me.

Gary: How dare you, bitch? I was going to pay you $75 to stick a hot dog in your ass. What the fuck is wrong with you?

Stalara: Blocked.

Gary: Oh, I fucking failed. I should have said that. I’m sorry.

I’m sorry.

Oh, wait, I’m blocked. I can’t say sorry. Fuck.

All right, do over. Can I have a do-over?

Stalara: Yeah.

Gary: Okay, thank you.

“Hello. I think you have a very nice taco and some nice titties. And golly gee, your butthole is really nice.

I’d love to see you stick a wiener in there, like a hot dog. It doesn’t have to be an expensive one. A store brand would be fine.

How much for you to stick a hot dog in your ass?”

Stalara: I do not stick hot dogs on my ass. I do not do anal content. But I do pussy content if you want some of that. I will stick one up my pussy if you would like.

Gary: Wow, that’s very professional. Okay. Oh, very good. Very good.

Because that’s my fetish. I love seeing hot dogs in women’s fucking dirty holes.

So how much will that cost me?

Stalara: I would say probably $75.

Gary: Okay. Okay. At the same time, that seems expensive. But it does seem cheap.

But I don’t know, because I would never stick a hot dog in my butt, so I really don’t know what the correct pricing would be. And I’ve never asked anyone else to do this before.

Let me think about this.

I think that does seem like a nice price, I guess.

What brand will you be sticking in your cooter bop? And do I have to pay for the brand?

Stalara: You do not have to pay for the brand.

Gary: Oh, nice. Will you be sticking a Nathan’s or a Ball Park in your cooter bop?

Stalara: Ball Park.

Gary: Oh, yeah. Cooked or raw?

Stalara: Raw.

Gary: Oh, yeah. Old Dirty Bastard. That’s how I like it.

All right, so I would like a full video of that. I want you laying on the bed, and I want you to jam it in there. Just like this. I want you to jam it.

Like that. Will you do that?

Stalara: I will.

Gary: Okay. I don’t want it to look sexual either. I want it to look very mechanical and weird.

Stalara: Okay.

Gary: I cannot read your context, but it seems to me, you know, because you’re typing… it seems to me you’re making fun of me for being a weirdo.

Stalara: No.

Gary: Your “no” seemed a little weird to me, even though you’re typing. You know, as you know, when some people type, you can tell like, “Ah, something’s a little weird.” I think it’s a little weird.

Stalara: It’s not weird at all.

Gary: So you think what I asked is normal?

Stalara: Yes.

Gary: Oh, good, good, good. You’re the only woman that’s ever understood me. And I think I’m in love.

Will you marry me?

Stalara: No.

Gary: What the fuck? I paid you $75 to stick a fucking hot dog in your ass, and now you won’t marry me? What the fuck kind of shit is this?

I swear to God, I’m going to find where you live and I’m going to stab you in the neck with a pen.

All right.

That went way off the rails. I apologize. I was trying to, you know, because I fancy myself an actor. So I was trying to get into the role of a complete fucking sick.

Stalara: You do good.

Gary: Yeah, there are some buyers that are pretty hard like that.

Stalara: They’re very difficult.

Gary: Oh, I’m sorry. I didn’t mean to… I just thought we were goofing around and shit.

But, like, you have to fucking go back and forth like that?

Stalara: Pretty much, yeah.

Gary: That ruins the hobby. I mean, to me, it’s like, I’ll fucking do it. But just like, all right, can we just… all right, let’s get on with it.

Stalara: Yeah, exactly.

Gary: So, do you shock your titties for your pleasure or for fans?

Stalara: Probably in the middle. I was very curious about it.

Gary: Interesting.

Stalara: Like, I recorded it and now it’s for the fans.

Gary: So you do like… how does it work? Because I don’t know. Do you just clamp them onto your nips?

Stalara: No, it’s like a stick. I could probably pull it out if you want.

Gary: Oh, I’ll be pulling it out.

Stalara: Oh, yeah. It’s just like a little stick.

Gary: Oh, like what cops have? Like, what is that, a fucking baton and shit?

Stalara: Kind of like a baton, but not really.

Gary: Oh, shit. So, like, just pretend this is a baton.

Stalara: Yeah.

Gary: Obviously, it’s my wiener. But so you just put it on your nip and it’s like… yeah, it has batteries. So you hit a button and then it’ll go?

Stalara: Yeah.

Gary: So you just do it to yourself?

Stalara: Yeah, I do it to all the people.

Gary: Oh, now that sounds fun.

Stalara: Yeah.

Gary: Well, that’s why I like to do it. See, I knew you were a sicko.

Stalara: Yeah.

Gary: So that’s what you’d rather do, right? Like, you want to fucking like this?

Stalara: Yeah, exactly.

Gary: Oh, do you post that kind of stuff or sell that kind of stuff? Because I think a lot of people will be into that.

Stalara: I could. Yeah, I mean, I’ve done it in the past.

Gary: Fuck yeah. I mean, who the fuck wouldn’t want to see that?

I mean, not me. You know, I have morals and values and stuff. I just want to see you stick a hot dog in your ass.

That’s all.

Stalara: Yeah.

Gary: I apologize. Maybe I have some fucking problems.

But yeah, we better fucking wrap this up because, you know, you gotta make me some content.

Stalara: Yeah.

Gary: Yeah. I mean, you got all these DMs I just sent you.

Stalara: Yeah.

Gary: You gotta fucking respond. I apologize for sending you so, so many DMs. I’m new to this. I’m a young buck, wet behind the ears.

Thank you for joining me tonight. I know you had to fucking rush home and shit, and I appreciate it.

She’s Stalara right there on Instagram. Her Linktree is in her description.

Thank you for joining us. We’ll check you later.

Stalara: Bye.

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